Write an effective letter marketing your story

 

 

 

From my 30 Day End CPS corruption challenge FaceBook page -Day 5-

Find potential media sources for our cause, as we know mainstream media won’t take our stories, if they are being paid off or whatever the reason.

Don’t just tell your story! Sell your story!

1.) Mention there are thousands of us families. This will benefit them by getting more viewers, likes, followers, all of us will share there stories. Show what we can do for them! In turn we are getting what we want exposure! So are they!

2.) Explain that they will be able to interview MANY more parents, with stories similar. This makes them not have to look for a story, we are dropping it in their lap, saving them time, energy.

3.) When selling, find common ground with person you are reaching out to. Example: If I were reaching out to NFL Patriots Tom Brady. I would not just ask him to share my story I would say something I know about him for instance he is working with a fundraising site for Disabled children, I would mention that I think it is really great that he is giving back and raising money for a worthy cause, ( mention where you seen this , on what website, you will have to take a little time researching, but its how you get results ) after complimenting them and stating where you seen them, explain why they would be an ideal candidate for advocating, “telling” our/your story. Why them? Again use compliments that are true and related to our story. Using Brady again, he is married has two children of his own, I’d say how he’s a hero to many and how he’s a wonderful husband and father , I’d mention the beautiful picture of him with his wife walking in the lake with his child on his shoulders, such a precious picture that tells a story. You can see the love for his life/family/wife/children in the picture! After that go into your story. Be brief but main parts that will grab attention, state how you feel about the system, then in closing ask if the person could assist you in sharing your story ect.

-Search truth seekers on Facebook who tell real stories of the real world ect. If you find email for them , is better than messaging in Facebook. Also you should have made an email with name and signature specifically for these reasons.

-search YouTube for same type of journalists and podcasts. Even random people who have a ton of followers work.

-Instagram some people on there are truthers ect look and see if there’s anyone who could share our story

Use your imagination, who can you reach out to that a lot of viewers will see our stories? Then research, keep a notebook with who you contact and when, so you can follow up, like a job.

Share with us here, the great ideas you came up with. Share good contacts so more of us can contact them, they will know their is “supply and demand” for these story types.

– If you get a good reply back, please share here or in my email.

Don’t get discouraged if they say they could not help you, bright side is that was one more person that just read YOUR story!!!

If you want me to read your letter before you send it, let me know, I can help you. Writing is my passion, and changing this system is my priority!

Good luck! Contact 10 people, I would do more. I do this daily. This is very valuable information that will help you.

List of Contacts I compiled

 

 

Hi fellow advocates and parents/grandparents this is a small list of some of the contacts I have put together to file complaint and get our stories heard. I did this to help other parents, as I have this in a binder. Please use wisely, let’s reform family court 2016.

 

Wisntvnews@wisn.com

Fox6news@Fox6now.com

news@wkow.com

tmj4feedback@todaystmj4.com

DVSavini@cbs.com

mhlebeau@cbs.com

jstofflet@nbc15.com

OCRComplaint@hhs.gov

Obama complaint line-1-202-456-1111

White House main #-1-202-453-1111

Dept if Justice main-1-202-514-2000

DOJ office of Asst General-1-202-514-2151

scoop@huffingtonpost.com

http://www.govspot.com/complaint

HTTPS://m.whitehouse.gov -email Obama

mccutcheonrb@msn.com – send story

AskDOJ@usdoj.gov don’t send attachments

Dept if Justice civil rights division 950 Pennsylvania ave NW Washington DC 20530-0001

ABC investigating team: abcnews.go.com/Blotter/swimming

White out press c/o onn po box 300942 Chicago il 60630 , editor@whiteoutpress.com founder:mark wachtler

http://www.naturalness.com/cps

http://www.drphil.com email show

 

NASW- Code of Ethics

In preparation for the jury trial for my children that were illegally removed from my care, I have notebooks full of things that I have learned and will share. Please do not take anything as legal advice as I am not an attorney and am a self taught mother fighting the system for the injustice they caused to my family.

These are notes on the NASW, Code of Ethics, Questions to ask worker in regards to ethics, and riskmanagement during our case. I found the information provided at http://www.social worker.com and in an article titled 9 tools for your professional social work toolkit. Valerie Arendt , MSW, MPP Executive Director for NASW, NC.

Code of Ethics

• NASW code of ethics States you have studied and learned from this set of values ethical principles and ethical standards and the general public can hold the social work profession accountable for his actions. Without this essential tool to guide your practice you are not a social worker!

 

Social Work licensure exists to protect the public. Social worker. Social worker needs to invest in liability. Public may file a malpractice lawsuit.

 

 

• Risk management

 

• What decision-making based module did the social worker use? Ask her! Consult with supervisor?
• Ethical theories: deontology ( duty based ethics)
• Teleology- choosing actions that maximize positive consequences
• Personal experience, social worker second guessed herself. After warrantless entry search and seizure, telling me the petition may not go through. Then later stating her supervisor was forcing her to file petition, after my children were illegally removed.

 

NASW code of ethics standard 1. 02 respect clients rights to self-determination and may only limit clients right to self-determination when clients actions or potential action pose a serious foreseeable and imminent risk to themselves or others. And that’d be even if social worker had the right to come into client’s home which in my case they didn’t in the first place.

Find out if the social worker is a member of the NASW. If they are then the social worker is bound to the code of ethics legally. Call NASW. Complain, file grievance, the social worker violated the code.

 

Ethical dilemma equal legal obligation comes first! Look up duty to protect law social worker in the state that you live in, these are notes and what I have learned while fighting CPS in the state of Wisconsin. After my children were illegally stolen from my car with no danger to them and multiple false allegations. This is only my opinion and should not be taken as legal advice.

 

In my particular situation the social worker made a mistake and then ask the supervisor to not file the petition. Error of judgement asked if that is why. Biased assumption inaccurate information. These lead to greater client anger more severe professional and legal consequences for the social worker. As a social worker they have a duty to put the interest of the client first! Code of ethics standard 1.01 and duty to act with honesty and integrity standard 4.04.

 

Questions to ask worker

• Why didn’t you follow up and fix the error?
• Why further our families suffering?
• Where you afraid that the supervisor in agency would be angry with you or scared of a client lodging a complaint against you and you are so new to your position?
• Scared a client would initiate legal proceedings against you?
• Couldn’t face embarrassment, loss of job?
• To admit a significant practice error takes moral fortitude, which you apparently lack.
• When making an error or lack of good judgement you could have went to supervisor, their supervisor, your attorney, agency’s attorney, & a SW office of ethics and professional review, liability insurance company, clinical supervisor, why didn’t you go to any of these people for reference?

 

To do

 

Look up social worker credentialing board web sites. C frequent cases clients filed against them resulting in imposed fines, penalties, licensure sanction, suspension or revocation. Some instances imprisonment for misconduct, violation of confidentiality, falsification of records, malfeasance excetera.

 

Ask the worker why did you go into social work? The answer invariably centers around an interest to wanting to help or improve the lives of others correct? The answer invariably centers around an interest to wanted to help others or improve the lives of others correct inheritance rights? Governmental authority to remove Child from home. The social worker is supposed to carry out trust, confidence, respect this is an integral part of client engagement strategy. To work toward family reunification. In my particular case these things have not occurred.

 

Ask the social worker what rapport building techniques did you use while handling my case?

 

• More frequently there is a conflict of interest with clients and social worker. Examples of behavioral factors violation of Worker client relationships are.
• Giving personal email, phone number, home address, Facebook account.
• Worker shares openly and freely own personal experiences with client.
• Communicate via text via Worker personal or work cell
• Worker spends more time with client than others and more.

 

If such involvement between Worker and client is suspected, this warrants further probe and attention by Worker supervisor.
Ascribed core principles, ethical procedures, guidance in regards to policy safeguards that govern scope of responsibility of employees providing client services intended to keep all safe.

Honest MOM-CPS Destroyed

I don’t know about everyone else, integrity to me is most important and I made sure to always be “age appropriately” honest with my children.

Children learn what they are taught and shown, especially by those they look up to most. I made sure to not lie to my children,

EVER!

UNFORTUNATELY CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES TOOK THAT TRUST I BUILT AWAY FROM ME AND MY INNOCENT CHILDREN.

 

• “Mommy will always come back for you,” I remember saying when they were afraid to stay at daycare while I worked.

• “I will always protect you,” when they woke up from a bad dream wanting me to hold them tight.

• “I’ll never let anything happen to you.”

• “You will always be my baby, no matter what”.

• “ Just call Mommy and I will come running to see if your OK”.

 

 

That’s what parents say, that’s the things I said to my children. When they were scared they trust their parents to be there, to take away that fear. Hold them all night after a bad dream. In the world we live in we must teach our children about “Stranger Danger”, and who not to go with.

What we don’t prepare for is someone making false allegations against us and the state coming in and tearing our children from us. Not in a million years would I think my children could be taken by CPS. Because CPS would need proof and evidence of maltreatment or abuse and I don’t harm my children, or put them in danger. I care for my children, teach them, love them, meet all their needs, keep them safe even if that means not being able to shower, nap,or pee by myself ever. That’s OK because my children are safe.

 

I lived for my children! They were my #1 priority, my needs came second to theirs. Being honest with them and them trusting me was something that would be helpful for years to come so I could always protect them and help them.

 

After 13 people breaking into our home, while I layed with my two toddlers getting them to fall asleep securely for a nap. Sound machine playing the sound of the ocean, as my daughter was collicy when she was born and the sound machine helped her stay asleep after hours of me rocking and swaying her in my arms.

I’m startled by a man yelling “POLICE”, I can’t imagine after the trauma of waking up to 13 strangers in their home, their mommy crying and them going away from their home and mommy shocks them and hurts them, not being able to trust, not even me.

 

To our children, we as parents are like superheroes. We have no fear, can fix anything and definitely will always protect them from anything. We run on little sleep, pick up the biggest messes, always love them unconditionally no matter what.

 

That image must be shattered after they’re stolen illegally from us, and we are made to stay away from them for months/year.

 

 

• This birthday where is mommy?

• Why is someone else giving me a bath, mommy said not to let anyone see my privates except a doctor when she’s there.

 

 

What do you think that does to their image and trust for us? I am pretty sure by the acting out they do shows their upset about this. Of course social workers will say their acting out because they lived in an unstable environment. Not they are acting out because we literally just stole these children from their parents out of their homes, and now are keeping them from their parents.

 

I believe that it will take years to rebuild that trust with our children when we do finally get them back.

 

• Next time they’re taken to daycare.

• When you say you will be back for them, or will never leave them.

• Visiting family members that they lived with when they were stolen, thinking they will have to stay there.

• memories you could not be part of.

• So many more….

 

 

All I wanted was for my children to trust me, be honest with me and know I am always honest with them. Now we will be punished for this and will have to work twice as hard to rebuild the trust I did nothing to lose.

 

Even after children are finally returned to their parents who love and are fighting for them, the scars from CPS will last for years to come. The raising of our children has been high jacked taken over and reconstructed by the system. Nothing will EVER be the same again, but we will take that because at least we will be together!

Share Your CPS Story Here

It is extremely important that as many people who have suffered from child protective services, either as a child living from foster to foster home, a mother who’s child was taken as a newborn right from the hospital, if you are fighting the never ending unjust system currently such as myself or even if your children were forcefully adopted out, though you or a family member wanted them. Please share your story!

It is very beneficial for you to speak about it, and if many attorneys see that enough families suffered from the department of social services they could put together a class action lawsuit, or the government may be forced to make changes due to the fact so many people are aware of the corruption within CPS. I encourage you to please share in comments or with me personally at againstcpsfalseallegationsaol.com .

It’s time that we let the government and CPS know we are not taking this anymore! I will post soon many ways to report individuals and your entire case.

Having proof is not enough !!!!

like most of you, I thought that it would be a closed case due to the fact that I have all of the proof of the malicious caller and all of the proof to prove that no abuse or neglect ever took place. Unfortunately that is not the truth. We are dealing with a system that is broken with children constantly fall through the cracks, parents rights are violated, grandparents have no rights and their rights are violated.

in a perfect world, we would think that the people that were meant to protect our children claim to have the best interest of the children at heart, would do just that. Unfortunately many of us have already come to the conclusion that children are nothing but dollar signs waiting to be made from our government.I have yet to know how to win in this corrupt situation where are children are being removed from our homes on false allegations where police and case workers are able to come into our home with no warrant or court order and remove our children for no reason whatsoever. What kind of world do we live in where are police officers can come in the middle of the night armed to take away our children.pictures sad sad conclusion to come to.

I like many of you I’m going through the same thing, and have undeniable proof that this was a setup a malicious act a conspiracy but because the courts and police are allowing it to happen it continues.my advice to anyone and please note that I am NOT a lawyer and I have not yet won my case fucked my advice would be to document everything I have so many papers I have so much proof it’s still not good enough but I would recommend to anyone in this situation to get as much documentation and proof of you as a good parent and them as letting us down as citizens and children of United States of America. at all costs if you’re early on get a lawyer outside of a court appointed attorney I wish I had the means to do so myself although I do not.

the reason proof does not set us free in these cases is because it is a strategic plan, it is not like in criminal court. This court does not need proof they can go on hearsay or anything. because of moved oversecret court hearings saying that they are protecting our children it when in fact they’re doing just the opposite.

I don’t have all the answers, I wish I did.I share everything I learn with others to help them that are in this situation. The look on my children’s face when they have to go home separate from where I go home kills me and it is a thought that is in my head constantly. my children want nothing more than to come home and be with their parents. The courts go out of their way to find something anything against the parents and while they do investigate thoroughly when the case is already open they take their sweet time so they can receive more money benefits from our children being removed from our care. In the meantime parents miss their children I know for a fact I work constantly at trying to learn the law and statues of my state to find a way to prove I am fit and my children will never harm. Hours upon hours just staring at law books going through documents make sure you read everything thoroughly the words they use in these documents alone can help you. Make sure you look up every statue.I barely sleep constantly looking up everything I can to become knowledgeable so that I can fight for my children. I live for my children and without them I merely just exist. I will fight until the end for my children and to me that is a fit loving mother.

I don’t know what kind of world we live in where our government are judges or case workers areall against us. I know how everyone feels as I feel the same. I help others so no other parent has to feel what I am feeling the emptiness I feel without my children. And so no children have to feel abandoned by their parents, I can only imagine what my 3 year old daughter thanks she was never away from me one day in her life. and even when I get her back I am sure she will not trust me. As she is only 3 years old and probably thinks that I abandon her and then I did not want to take her home or see her. This is the same with my other three children although they are a bit older. If they are told lies and bad things I don’t know if it matters how much you had a bond with your children. all of my children and I were very closegood mother active in their learning education life etc. Not being able to take them school shopping or be there for open house or on the first day of school last day of school help with homework etc has been incredibly difficult. I am NOT an absent mother and because I am being forced to be out of their lives it is very traumatic.

stay strong everyone. I was a bit more of an motivational speaker up until I tried filing the motions I learned how to do on my own the papers that needed to be filed correctly that I taught myself that Iended up having to type from a small touch screen cell phonehours are needed to but I did all of this only to get to the courthouse and theclerk of courts refusing to file my papers, treat me like a criminal because I was exercising my rights and asking her to please notarize it correctly and to please date stamp that she received each document so there was no discrepancy later. The clerk of courts that called the sheriff to remove me from the courthouse or I would be arrested. I was not disorderly I wassimply asking that she’d you what her job description is and whatis written in ourstate legislature. Apparently they make it even more difficult for parents.

I feel as if I am a prisoner even thoughI am a prisoner even though I am NOT in jail. Because the court appointed me Council which has been provenineffective. By myself and past client boss making it so I can not file the paperwork I need to in order to have this case dismissed for to winor to win. I personally feel bad if a parent goes the distance to learn the law when they are not Lawyer and cannot afford representation if that Parents spends all of the time to learn all of the laws and statutes that parents shouldspace not be treated the way I was when I went to file the paperwork. I agree that some parents should not have their children and some children are abused and neglected by their biological parents and in those situation yaz the children should be removed but those parents are the parents that are not goingto learn the law and fight for their children either because they know theythat they are in the wrong. Had I done anything wrongwrong I would not object to having services, but because I have not  a thing I will fight until the end. with that said I want to express that I had a case open prior because of my exwho beat and videotaped our son! He won his case took a deffered prosecution charge and turned a case around on me because I was protecting our son! The day of trial everyone brought me to a room alone bullying me into a plea, I would not, I was crying and pregnant. I was told that if I plea no contest that it means I agree to some but not all the allegation on the petition and my older 3 could start spending the night right away, my son can come home from foster care soon and the child who I was pregnant with would not be part of the petition. I took the plea, did services jumping through hoops for two years. Doing everything they said and more, also kept the baby’s father away as requested. They made it very difficult for me but I won! My children came home case closed out after two years! But I am back where I started, now they say I was found of neglect in the last case which is not true! I plea that way and was bullied into it. This is a tactic they use, they knew they would have lost if a jury heard the case, I did not know this at the time! This time was much smarter, have not signed anything and will not take a plea at any cost. Do the same, I’m not a lawyer any advice is only my opinion this is my disclaimer!

Parents Grieve Live Children

For a parent any time away from their children is to much. I couldn’t begin to imagine if any of my four children passed away, but imagine for a moment that your child is alive, and it is your job as a parent to protect them at any cost. Then imagine if you will someone comes in and takes those children from you. There’s nothing you can do but fight for your child in court. Where the odds are already against you.

Child protective services recieves money incentive when children are adopted out and the adoption is finalized. What does that mean as a parent? From the minute these social workers knock on your door, they have one thing and only one thing in mind. To get your children adopted out. There are no cash incentive for reunification or prevention, although they claim to be doing what is ” in the best interest of the children “, they are doing anything but.

So while your fighting your unnecessary, case that is full of false allegations, falsified documents, unable to find an attorney to represent you up against these monsters, your children are placed in a temporary home. Your unable to see or talk to them without authorisation and most time supervision, depending what CPS feels necessary for your case. Your families fate is in the hands of money hungry, lying, corrupt monsters. Who will do anything to frustrate you and make you fail.

The court process is drawn out so they are able to collect more money from your children being the system and so they have longer to dig up as much dirt on you as they can. Holidays pass, birthdays pass, first day of school and other important milestones you must miss. Trust me when I say, your relationship with your children is not top priority for them.

Often times children in foster care are abused and neglected, sometimes sexually abused. Parents that suspect this try to stop it every way they can, but nothing works. If a parent pushes to much they will be arrested and that will make their case worse yet. So while the parent is forced to stay away from their child they feel helpless because they cannot protect their child. Parents suffer extreme PTSD as almost everything triggers them to think about their children and how they were taken.Those parents see pictures of their children sometimes posted on social media by the foster family, and the biological parents are haunted of these images.

It is hard to lose a child, no matter what the case may be. Most parents do not spend a great deal away from their children, if any time at all and to have them ripped from your care when you have done nothing wrong is unbearable. Parents that this has happened to often avoid going to public places, especially places where children will definitely be present. If they have to be in public and see a child, they often stare. A million thoughts and feelings run through their mind at that very moment, and it takes everything they have to hold back the tears. If the parent of that Child notices the parent who lost theirs staring, they will most likely give a half smile. Never telling their story, knowing that most people who have not dealt with CPS are very judgemental and do not understand until it happens to them personally. Most are under the assumption that if the children were removed their had to be a good reason and even if the parent tried to tell their story, people will think they are just not being honest.

Most friends have no idea what to say to parents that lost their children and often times just say nothing at all.While I am not comparing the two scenarios, because both are equally tragic. Losing a child to death is a lot more accepted. Parents who are living without their children come from all walks of life although there is a main targeted market. The man at the playground that you acted like was a pedephile, just missed being able to see his child play on the monkey bars or race down the slide. The mother at the supermarket that just looked as your child was throwing a tantrum in line because she wanted candy, wasn’t looking at you to be judgemental, she was jealous that you are still able to be embarrassed in public by toddler tantrums. These parents miss every part of parenting and would give anything to be able to raise the child they gave life to. If you see someone who may fit this description be more understanding, and less quick to judge as you have no idea the fight they have been through and what was at stake for losing.

Your Children have been detained….Now What!?!?!?

I know from experience that this is the most difficult thing that you have ever had to deal with in your lives. If you want any chance to have this closed immediately you need to listen carefully to what information I have for you and even though you are feeling a million emotions all at once and just want to cry. Take a moment, maybe a few to collect your thoughts, then you MUST not focus on your emotions and get to work. If I would have known this information at the time my children were taken, I would not be sitting here nine months later still fighting and preparing for my jury trial in three weeks.

Cry, scream, hit your pillow, do whatever you need to do then think: What would you do if an emergency happened and you were the only one able to protect your child? You would not panic, there would be no time. You would pull it together and protect your child against whatever was happening, you would not show fear, or weakness, because failing is NOT an option. With that said, your children are in great danger at this time.

In order to make this go away immediately and have the least amount of damage to your family, you must do these things, FIRST: Get a notebook and pen,write down everything from the day your children were removed. Don’t leave anything out, include names of social workers, times every detail no matter how small, it could be important later. SECOND: Determine if you have the means to hire an attorney, if you do research and get an attorney familiar with these types of cases. Check reviews, as not all attorneys when it comes to these type of cases will work for you like you need. If you cannot afford an attorney, don’t be discouraged, most parents who the system targets cannot afford one. Try to ask everyone you know if they can help you with retaining an attorney. There are websites that you can make a fundraising site and try to collect the funds that say, keep in mind there are a large number of parents and grandparents already doing this. Also keep in mind most targeted families are low income to below poverty, and though they feel for you and would like to help they just can’t. They aren’t even able to help themselves.

Next you must type a sworn affidavit, sometimes also known as Declaration of Facts. This is extremely important, you are going to have a hearing within 72 hours of your children being removed from your care. This is the probable cause hearing, the judge decides if there is probable cause of abuse or neglect, and children could be in need of protection and services. Without your sworn affidavit, all the judge/court has is the petition from Child protective Services, with only one side to the story, there can only be one judgement made. Without your declaration of Facts, the chances of you being able to talk in court are very slim. It is a very fast paced hearing, judge is given petition by CPS, then rules there is probable cause and makes another hearing to come back, so you can put your plea in. It goes that quick when you do not have your declaration of the facts. If you want any chance at all of this case being closed, your children come back home and case against you ends, then you must do this.

Trust me that 72 hours is better to have your children away from you, than months and years like the parents I talk to everyday. Keep that notebook and pen, continue keeping a diary of anything and everything having to do with the case. Keep this log of events throughout entire case, keep it organized, as you will want to be able to easily look up anything that you need information on.

One more very important thing that I would like to add in this particular post is, DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING FROM CPS ORCOURT.

If you hire an attorney, do NOT speak to anyone without your attorney present!!

No matter what CPS tells you, don’t sign anything! Do not let them BULLY you into doing this, if you can get a recording device, that only you know is recording. Look up your state laws on recording devices and rules. It is good to have the record if even just for yourself, so you can accurately remember everything that happened.

Hope you found this post helpful! I am fighting my own case, and advocating for other parents and children rights, as I can I will update more information for everyone to help them.